Yoga with Roni

8 Limbs of Yoga

Yama : Universal Morality

The yamas are the moral virtues which, if attended to, purify human nature and contribute to health and happiness of society.

1. Ahimsa – Compassion for all living things

Unfortunately, there is no exact English translation for the Sanskrit word ahimsa. For me, the closest is non-violent. I like to look at Ahimsa as a harmonious life, that in every situation we should adopt a considerate attitude and do no harm. I always explain it as a way of looking at life meaning kindness, friendliness, and thoughtful consideration of other people and things.

2. Satya – Commitment to Truthfulness

Satya literally means “to speak the truth,” or I like to say integrity. Starting with yourself, meaning your thoughts align with your words and actions. It is important to keep the values of Samadi meaning, consider what, when, and how we speak our truth. Then, in what way it could affect others. Our duty is to study ourselves and recognize what is a truth, fact and what is critique. Satya should never come into conflict with our efforts to behave with ahimsa. This perception is based on the understanding that honest communication and action are the building blocks of any healthy relationship. For example, if you feel hurt and you go to blame the person that “hurt you,” choose the right language. If you are being honest, you’d say “I’m hurt” and not “you hurt me” because “you hurt me” places the blame on the other person and you wouldn’t be taking responsibility for yourself and your emotions. Blaming the other person could result in them becoming defensive and lead to a bigger problem. In all, deliberate deception, exaggerations and mistruths harm others.

3. Asteya – Non-stealing

Asteya is not taking or using something that does not belong to us. This also means not taking advantage of a situation where someone confides in us. Non-stealing includes not only taking what belongs to another without permission, but also using that something for a different purpose than intended. For example, what does it mean to steal time? For example, if you see your professor on their lunch break and you approach them demanding their attention for a personal issue, or a task without permission or appointment, you are stealing their free time for lunch. The practice of asteya implies not taking anything that has not been freely given. This behavior prevents crossing the lines of ahimsa and satya.

4. Brahmacharya – Sense control

Brahmacharya means taking control of your emotions by not reacting to the sensation, but choosing how to respond. This is mostly used in the sense of abstinence, particularly in people’s relationship to sexual activity. This does not necessarily mean celibacy. For example, sexual harassment. It happens in our society all the time, and to break it down, it is a person not controlling their sensations or desires and using their energy in a way that might harm others. Our sexual energy is powerful, it’s the foundation for our survival, to reproduce and therefore should be used to regenerate our connection to our spiritual self.  Brahmacharya suggests that we should form relationships that foster our understanding of the highest truths.

5. Aparigraha – Neutralizing the desire to acquire and hoard wealth

Aparigraha means to only take what you need and not to act greedy because of fear. The fear comes from lack of trust in the Universe and yourself to provide what you need for your future. Those collecting and hoarding are perfect examples of people consuming more than they need. It takes energy, space and becomes draining. Take only what you need, and you’ll find you need much less than we are conditioned to think. If you take more, you are exploiting someone else. In addition, Aparigraha means letting go of our attachments to things and understanding that change is the only constant. We should remember that nothing lasts forever.